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Dear Friends:
This is the third message in a series on fretting and worry. I am blessed by the many responses. May the Lord use these words to bring you peace.
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Do not fret because of the wicked;
do not be envious of wrongdoers
For they will soon fade like the grass.
and wither like the green herb.
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Trust in the Lord, and do good;
so you will live in the land and enjoy security.
Take delight in the Lord,
and he will give you the desires of your heart.
(Ps 37:1-4)
The instruction to “Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him; fret not yourself. . .” that was discussed in the first two messages of this series (Ps 37.7). It may be as difficult to obey as anything prescribed in Scripture. The old saying, “The Lord helps those who help themselves” rings in our ears. The guilt-inducing platitude, “You do your part, then the Lord will do his part” presses on our insecurities to goad us into action.
Another cliche fuels our fretting, “You don’t want to be too heavenly minded to be no earthly good.” It can seem inexcusably lazy, presumptuous and sinful to sit still and wait patiently for God to do something.
Every one of those popular admonishments is a temptation to pride and self-righteousness. These are particularly deceptive temptations because they appeal to our good intentions and best efforts. The “wicked” are bad guys. Someone needs to set them straight and call sin by its right name and is that not our calling? But who is the fretter setting straight? No one. Fretting tears one up on the inside with fear and worry, but it is ineffective to accomplish anything Jesus said (Mt 6:27).
The Psalmist indicates that the interior harm of worry is caused by an interior sin. We may not be an idolater, blasphemer, murderer, adulterer, liar or slanderer, but who of us hasn’t envied someone. Envy is simply a synonym for “covetousness” proscribed by the Tenth Commandment (Ex 20:17). People are doing the wrong thing and getting away with it, maybe even getting wealthy. That irritates us no end, and irritation is one of the symptoms of fretting. It is a form of envy to become irritated at the success of another. Read the rest of this entry »
Tags: A Word of Grace, Kent Hansen


